Other graves also have remembrances from the family of the deceased on them. Looking at the various mementoes on the various graves, what distinguishes those on Seth's grave is that they are all jolly, colorful tributes, not to Seth, but to Life. None of our rocks say, "We miss you" or "we love you" (though we do). Pictures of sea creatures, multicolored dots, flowers, the Sun, faces; that is what is painted on the rocks. I realized that part of Seth's legacy to all of his family is that it is important to take what you have in front of you and use it to make something that delights you. Delight in what is here and now.
A lot of things that someone tries to teach, you don't really get, but the rocks on his grave show me that at least in this place, we GOT it. Thank you Seth.